Tuesday, May 15, 2012

The Psychology of Very Young Children

Like my last posting, this one is simply a little treasure chest I found in some notes from 2009. But it brought a big smile to my face, so I thought I'd share it:

Things I learned about very young children after only a couple days of babysitting:


-Kids ask for clarifications in the most unexpected areas: 
Me: When I was in forth grade, I played Romeo in Romeo and Juliet. 
Him: Who played Juliet?" 
Me: A girl named Melanie…? You probably don't know her.

-They talk in all kinds of superlatives: 
Him: Is that the biggest spoon in the entire world? 
What if I squished the heads of everybody in the entire world?

-They take things extremely literally:
Me: "I suspect there's really only a handful of people in the world." 
Him: "A handful? But it would take like five handfuls just to pick up a single person!"

-Him: I have an idea! (repeated over and over again without ever revealing the idea)

-Whenever he says something cute, if he gets a positive reaction, he will immediately repeat it (this will continue until he ceases to get a positive reaction).


-Comically greedy: 
Him: I want you to buy for my birthday everything in the entire world. 
Me: How much do you think it would cost to buy everything in the world? 
Him: Like millions and millions of dollars. You would have to buy a… (followed by a list of one of every obvious thing he could see at that moment)

-Him: "Do you know who my best friend in class is?" 
Me: (unspoken) I don't know the name of a single person in your class…I don't even know your teacher's name!

-I can make a limerick! (attempt has neither rhythm nor rhyme scheme)

-Commonly said: Not fair!

-Refusing to do things only to exercise power. Crying only for attention. Tantrums to make a completely inconceivable point. Only saying sorry when told to.

*Repeating a single phrase over and over and over and over...

-Contradicting the self in order to contradict the other: 
Her: I don't want to go in there…I'm mad at you for making me go in there! 
(Next day) I want to go in there! 
Me: But yesterday you yelled at me for making you go in there. 
Her: (starts to cry) But I want to I want to I want to.

-Total fascination with who could beat who: 
Could a dog beat a goat? 
Could Superman run faster than the truck?

-Why don't rocks ever grow?

-Imaginative worlds in which scraping a stick in the ground is building a road factory. Yet if his sister steps on the ground in a place he hasn't even scraped, she's completely ruining it!

-Him: Why can't she pee outside like everyone else? 
Me: Because she's a girl. 
Him: And she doesn't use her penis? 
Me: She doesn't have one. 
Him: Why not? 
Me: Because boys and girls' bodies are shaped differently so they can work in different ways. 
Him: Why? 
Me: So everyone is good at something different and society will be better.
Him: Why do you float better in salt water?

-Him: Are there dinosaurs in Colorado?
Me: Kind of...

And by far my favorite...
-Him: Why don't you keep digging until you get to the center of the Earth? 
Me: Because it's really hot there. 
Him: Why don't you make a mask that sprays cold water on you all the time so you don't get hot? 
Me: Because it's so hot it makes rocks melt. 
Him: Why don't you spray cold water on them?


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